It was a busy morning, about 8:30 am when an elderly gentleman in his 80’s arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor’s appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer’s disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him, ‘And you still go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?’ He smiled as he patted my hand and said, ‘She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.’
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goosebumps on my arm, and thought, ‘That is the kind of love I want in my life.’
True love is neither physical nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
Life isn’t about how to survive the storm, But how to dance in the rain.’
So this came in from my friend Bill last week and it got me to thinking and talking about acceptance.
“How accepting am I?”, I asked.
What I noticed is that when I come from a place of acceptance, I experience no stress and I am not the source of stress in the life of those around me. And when I fail at acceptance the opposite is true.
What is your experience?
Will you join me in a commitment to Accept What Happens…a timeless wisdom practice…and to be more accepting of the people in your life for who they are instead of who you want them to be?
Tony DeMello once said that the definition of Love is to allow others to live their life the way that they choose, without judgment or comment.
He was a wise man.
I Love You.