That morning, frost and brisk pre-dawn air served as a good reminder to me that the year was coming to an end. It feels fitting to share this modern day parable at this time.

May it serve you well.

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.
His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.
Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally, the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all.
He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.

He said, ‘You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out but he is still cut open. You can do your best to apologize and “make up” for your action but the wound will still be there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.’

Please forgive me if I have ever left a ‘hole’ in your fence.
And may you be inspired to reflect a bit and see what holes you have left in the fences in your world upon yourself and others. And if you are courageous enough to take the first healing step… apologize for the harm caused.

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